Judge me, go ahead. We judge people all the time. But know this, I am conscientious and I really care. I do my best, all the time. I get it wrong sometimes and I mess up occasionally but I try really hard to afford people the benefit of the doubt. Grant me the same....... I love deeply and with all my heart, and as a consequence I hurt deeply when you ridicule and slight me.... aren't we all the same? Don't we all feel such hurt? Today, as a grown woman, an unkindly comment from a  thoughtless person made me cry.... I was and am really upset. Good friends gave me kind words and cheer. For that I am grateful xxxxxx